Originally Posted by
Knownfactor
From someone who has been training one of the most stubborn breeds for the past 10 months i can tell you a few things.
1) if your dog is peeing in its crate, the crate is to big or your not letting it outside enough. the crate should be the size of the dog laying down and that is all, nothing bigger. any larger and it will pee and poop. The reason you get a crate the size of the dog is because 99.9% of the time it will not defecate where it sleeps. Also at 6 months old this dog should be going to the bathroom every 2-4 hours like clockwork. if you don't keep track and manage its bathroom time, that's when you get your puppy peeing in the house.
2) your dog is a puppy! its a small child just like your children. you can't keep it locked up for the majority of the day its cruel. you have to let it run, play, and tire himself out. Take him to the dog park and let him socialize with other dogs and run and play. i guarantee you if you take him to the park and bring him back home he will sleep for 2+ hours and not be all crazy excited. Labs don't mature until the age of two so you have to keep him busy...teach him how to swim, Labs love to swim.
3) go to petsmart and put him in puppy kindergarten. its like $120 for 8 weeks and it will not only teach the very basics of dog behavior but it will socialize the dog also and teach you along the way.
4) Tivo Dog Whisperer and Its me or the Dog. Both are great shows for dog behavior issues.
5) If you have a problem with your dog pooping in the back yard, take it on a walk instead and bring a poop bag. its not tough i do it every day with my dog and your yard won't be a mess but from the sounds of it you all don't want to walk him and aren't really keeping track on how many times hes pooping which should be at this age 2-3 times a day.
6) If you don't have the time or your wife doesn't have the time or your kids don't want to interact with the dog, Maybe you shouldn't own a dog. from 2months-1 year is the most critical time to train your dog. its like you teaching your kid everything he/she needs to know from age 2-15 in the matter of 10 months. you have to be disciplined you have to show it attention and play, and teach it tricks and let it be a dog. Labs are amazing with kids and are extremely social animals you just have to be its guide.
good luck! and if i think of anything else ill post it up. or if you decide to get rid of it. i would strongly consider taking him off your hands! we would just have to sort out shipping =)